Today is my Girly’s 1st Birthday!
As any Mama, this day brings my mind back to place she was born. In our case, that means her bedroom.
We planned a home birth, with medical support from a professional midwifery clinic.
We had a successful hospital birth with our BigGuy, and full health insurance. So, our decision wasn’t necessarily a monetary one, but it did save us a whole lot of cash . All costs were fully covered by our health insurance, including the birth tub and birth kit bought online. I certainly don’t advocate for considering a home birth based on finances alone, but it is a safe alternative to hospitalization. Here’s an interesting article from Fit Pregnancy about Better births, lower costs.
I was inspired by the eye-opening documentary “ The Business of Being Born .”
I had considered myself to be fairly well educated, but this film made me realize just how the obstetrics industry has been stripping mothers of our right to birth naturally . Statistically, only 1 in 100 American babies are born at home. Yet, 1 in 4 American babies now come by Cesarean surgery and the majority of mothers/babies are sedated by drugs at birth. I feel very lucky that my first hospital birth had minimal interventions and no drugs. Not everyone is so fortunate.
Before I go any further, I want to say that hospitals are amazing places for high risk pregnancies, where moms and babies need medical support . In an emergency, I would not have hesitated being transferred and fully appreciate modern medicine.
My top 10 reasons for having a home birth:
- Safe – with prenatal care, contingency plans, and professional home birth equipment
- Sustainable – minimal carbon footprint
- Inexpensive – even with insurance, our first birth cost a few thousand dollars
- Comfortable – the comforts of home, even if birth isn’t
- Family-friendly – our son announced that she was a girl; our closest family was there
- Thoughtful – professional midwives prepare clients with extensive knowledge
- Playful – music and water helps relax and energize between contractions
- Empowering – you make healthy decisions to benefit you and your baby
- Free High – you may not get drugs at home, but the birth “high” is incredible
- Home healing – being at home to heal with postnatal visits for baby and mom
If you or someone you know is considering home birth, I’d like to offer up these resources:
- Ina Mays Guide To Childbirth is an essential read for home and hospital births
- Baby Catcher: Chronicles of a Modern Midwife is as intriguing as it is hilarious, written by the first midwife with hospital privileges in the early 80’s
- Welcome with Love is a children’s book sharing the story of a family’s home birth
- My Best Birth is a new film coming April 2010 with lots of inspiring birth stories
- Vivante Midwifery was very professional and has tons of info on their FAQ page
My last two cents on the subject: birth is a natural process that has been going on since our beginning; having faith in this mysterious process has helped us endure and succeed. Plus,
home is where the heart is, where families grow, and dreams are born.
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